LOVE......

There's a reason people say they would be happy alone. Its not because they thought they would be happy alone. It was because they believed if they lovecd someone and then it fell apart, thay might not make it.

It's easier to be alone, because what if you learn to need love and you don't have it? What if you like it and lean on it? What if you shape your life around it and then it falls apart?

Can you even survive that kind of pain? Losing love is like organ damage.It's like dying.The only difference is that DEATH ENDS.


This..... IT CAN GO ON FOREVER

Letting Go

There are people who can walk away from you, and haer me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you let them walk.

You shouldn't have to try talk another person into stayingwith you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,staying attached  to you. I MEAN HANG UP THE PHONE!!!

When people can walkawayfrom you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

'They came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us'

people leave you because they are not joned to you, and if they are not oined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go.

It doesn't mean they are a bad person, it just means their story is over.You've got to know when people's part is over in your story, so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over.

I believe in GOODBYE. It's not that I'm hateful, its that I'm faithful. I believe what I am meant to have in life I will receive. It takes too much sweat I don't need it., Stop begging people to stay. LET THEM GO!!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life then...LET IT GO!!!If someone can't treat you right, love you back and see your worth LET IT GO!!!! LET IT ALL GO!!!

Get right , get left... think about it and then LET IT GO!!!

THE BATTLE IS GOD'S

A philosophy to live by...

A really lovely philosophy to live by......Hope you give it a thought. Beautiful and Stunning message. Stay away from Anger.. It hurts ..Only You! If you are right then there is no need to get angry, And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.
 Patience with family is love, Patience with others is respect, Patience with self is confidence and Patience with GOD is faith.

Never Think Hard about the PAST, It brings Tears... Don't think more about the FUTURE, It brings Fear... Live this Moment with a Smile, It brings Cheer.

 Every test in our life makes us bitter or better, Every problem comes to make us or break us, The choice is ours whether we become victims or victors. Search for a beautiful heart not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good but good things are always beautiful.

Do you know why God created gaps between fingers? So that someone who is special to you comes and fills those gaps by holding your hand forever. Never forget this advice! Happiness keeps You Sweet, Trials keep You Strong, Sorrows keep You Human, Failures keeps You Humble, Success keeps You Glowing, But Only God keeps You Going!

Words For Life...

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy. If you want to be respected, you must respect yourself. Above all, be true to yourself, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it.

Know your worth. Know when you have had enough. And move on from the people who keep chipping away at your happiness. Carry yourself like a Queen and you’ll get your King. Carry yourself as a hoe and we’ll see how far you go. Never make your self feel like nothing, to make someone else feel like everything. Before you ask someone why they hate you, ask yourself why you even care.

All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to the other person to realize you’re worth. Treat everyone with love, even those who are rude to you, not because they are not nice, but because you are nice. Respect people’s feelings. Even if it doesn’t mean anything to you, it could mean everything to them. It’s better to have nobody, than to have someone who is halfway there, or doesn’t want to be there.


Five things to avoid if you want your boyfriend to want you

#1 Don’t be too easy to get. Don’t be available for him anytime he calls you. Don’t change your plans just to be with him. Let him know that you have a life too, and he needs to take you more seriously if he wants you by his side. but that doesn't mean go out and cheat on him.

#2 Don’t be a pushover. If he changes plans in the last minute and leaves you in the middle of a date to hang out with his friends, or cancels a date for silly reasons, don’t accept such behavior. If he walks away, let him. if he doesnt come back he was never gonna stay long anyway.

#3 Don’t be eager to please him. Pleasing each other should be mutual. If you find that you’re the only one indulging in sweet gestures while he just behaves like a slob, put an end to it and make him work for your attention all over again.

#4 Don’t be the first one to make up all the time. This is especially important if it’s not your own fault. If your boyfriend’s taking you for granted, and you find yourself being the one who has to make up all the time, ignore him for a while or give him a cold shoulder. If he really cares, he’ll swallow his pride and come back crawling.

#5 Don’t be clingy and needy. Show off your independence even if you’re just idle and sitting at home. Appear like you’re a girl who can sort her own affairs. He should know that spending even a few minutes with you is a privilege!


When your girlfriend takes you for granted...?

What do you do when your girlfriend takes you for granted? imean you've tried talking to her, she listens, but doesn't seem to care. You've sent messages instead of talking on the phone, tried talking to her in person, sometimes u think talking to her wont' work, but if u don't talk, she won't get the hint! U love her and hopefully she loves u too, but this is not working at all.

You've been dating for a year or two now and u have the perseverance to make it much longer, but u don't know how much more u can take! Maybe she has a new lover but she doesn't want to leave you because she is not sure whether it will work out or not with the new guy? Best Answer If talking doesn't seem to work, stop doing whatever it is that she is taking for granted. If need be, leave. She'll figure it out. Its not like you're giving up but you must know where to draw the line,from desperation to determination.

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Be Original....

The other day I was sitting on campus, casually staring at people and making spontaneous assessments of them. That's a pastime I unabashedly enjoy. Anyway, I noticed a guy sitting two seats away from me who, upon first glance, I liked the look of. But upon closer scrutiny, I realised something horrific. Gut-wrenchingly awful. Every single item that he was wearing, I had seen that very day on 5 different guys.

Now, no one likes to feel unoriginal. I almost mentioned it to the look-thief, but thought better of it. "Those are mannequin clothes!" is not a good conversation opener. It did get me to thinking about originality though. There's an inherent problem. It's actually quite easy to wear clothes that nobody else is wearing, but often there is a very good reason that nobody else is wearing them. They're bloody horrible.

So to my mind there are three distinct approaches. The first is simple: spend a small fortune on high-fashion garments. The reasons that you shouldn't do this are two-fold. Spending a small fortune on clothes is unreasonable and, honestly, offensive.

 In fact I'm increasingly trying to avoid "trends". If I think my 40-year-old self would be embarrassed to be seen walking with a man wearing it, I don't think it should be bought buy. By the way this also applies to most of the stuff in the window of Markham.

The second approach is one that I can perhaps help with. Simply identify smaller labels and buy from them. Then when a friend asks where you got your new shirt from, you can just smile enigmatically and say something irritating like: "Wouldn't you like to know?"

The third approach is trawling around second-hand and charity shops. But the feeling of finding a gem hidden on the racks is hard to beat. Warning: when you see something advertised as a "vintage 1990s jumper", you will feel very old indeed.

Sooo... genleman do us all a favour a try create your own dresscode, because NO ONE wants to be unoriginal

Power of The TRIBE

BOLD, SHARP ECCENTRIC.... Tribal prints have arrived with a big bang.

Over the past few years I have noticed that everything around us seems more colourful, bolder, brighter and more distinctive. Tribal prints have become a prominent trend.

Designers like Donna Karen, Nkhensani Nkosi, Mara Hoffman and Paula Mendoza have been influenced by this trend when you look at their creations.

I myself have caught the tribal bug and have collected a few items over the years, and it seems I am not the only one. As I walked through the streests of Jo'burg my eyes were bombarded with everytghing tribal. It seems that tribal print have become a part of contemporary style.

Prints come with a  "LOOK AT ME" statement and boy o0h boy did I see interesting people who cary themselves with a lot of confidence and poise.... SWAGGED out people to put it in more latent terms.

One observation I could say that I made is that this is all really not new to my world... South Africans have been wearing tribal prints way before they got the APPROVAL stamp in the fashion world.

So to all South Africans who have been wearing tribal prints way to go in going a road untravelled and starting a fashion CRAZE... And welcome to those who have boarded the ship!!!

Neon Sciene....Fad or fashion

Luminous bright colours that shout for attention, have become the order of the day. One walks into stores and is blinded by the brightness that is this season's summer collections. From the hoes, clothes, bags even the accesories.

If the end of August is anything to go by these LOUD, BRIGHT colours will do nothing but compliment the warmthof the hottt summere days that are yet to come...

Whether this is one of those trends that will come be around for just a season is irrelevant. Although I haven't seen many rocking the trend, it is one of those you can see is going to be popular among FASHIONISTAS

Do yourself a favour and whipp out the STUNNERS to apprehend the blinding brightness of the looming phenomena... Oh did i mention the STUNNERS.. are luminous too!